Shortly after my divorce, a friend suggested playing all the mirrors of my house, realizing that every time a mirror or reflective surface passed, turns his head to look at this habit and fun, we found that he was not a narcissistic ofchannel.Prefiro check if it was not just an invisible and unimportant ghost in my own life.
Now I can say that with humor.A Fathoma hole of simple survival.I feel it does not exist in my life or not.
My marriage was a failure for years and we stayed together thanks to the planned opposite.
Where was the excited and passionate woman in the disaster of all the papers I fulfilled? Because I could find the employee, mother and wife of an absent husband. As I could remember that I could remember how I could feel?Life, besides the fact that I remember being flesh and blood?
If you feel lost. And he considered it guaranteed. It's very easy to feel invisible and unimportant in the program of your own world.
My dear. Life doesn't have to feel that way.
So the question is: Why do you feel invisible and unimportant? And what is even more important, what can you do to remind you that you are important?
One: If they grow up, they should not speak and were talking, they have learned to be physically present at an early age, but not attracting attention to themselves.
I grew up at a time when girls and young people should stand still and look beautiful. To get a man's attention, they should look calm and tempting. Until your colleagues. And of course your opinion should be kept behind your teeth.
Otherwise, life could be a social disaster. And no one wants to love you.
Even if you are a naturally shy and silent person, it causes this kind of attitude as if you were a sensitive flower. He is a person who must disappear in the background unless a guest needs it.
If you have to break the behavior of a spirit in your own life, you must learn to feel uniform and unimportant in postponing rooted habits and thoughts for a long time.
Start family or friends in a safe space or with a therapist and coach. And talk to yourself.
First, give an opinion on something unintentionally so that you can build courage and resistance in a visible version of yourself.Be compassionate with yourself.Remember that you need to offer wisdom, which is valuable.
Allow yourself to learn the habit, disappear in the coating of wood and be visible in your own existence.
Two: If you do not honor your feelings and ignore your intuition, of course, you will feel unimportant and invisible.
One of the keys to making decisions that help you love your life is to listen to your stomach.Science has shown that our brain acts as a supercomputer to help us make quick (and good) decisions based on our life experiences.And your feelings must be a GPS system for your life.
However, many people ignore their intuition and, instead of honoring their feelings, prefer to numb negative emotions. Standing the construction of those built in a way that your body, mind and heart try to attract your attention that you will always feel invisible and withoutimportance.
If you have gotten used to ignoring your feelings and intestines, the only way to feel visible is to feel againYou should really feel your feelings.And if your inner voice of wisdom or intuition gives you a boost, listen.
Three for their hearts (and in action) are a human teacher, sacrifice their visibility in the hope of making other people happier. They expect me to love you.
On the surface, it looks like a way to make people realize;So if they want to be more visible, you might think it's the key to helping others.Because people expect to do all things.
As a renewed human ailer, I can say that I always tried to be the good girl. I made my job in the office, helped others when they got stuck and I was the girl I could go, if they needed a favor. It was my family, I did what others wanted from me, not what I wanted (or needed) to maintain peace. I hope it was not rejected.
And if we look at one of my former Band's "punishments", it was the stone walk and a rape could lead not to talk to me for several days, which I felt even smaller and alone.
Instead of getting what I want to pay attention or approval, my people made people take advantage. Do you think who wants to give someone love and attention that is constantly necessary or guided by their love?
If you want to stop feeling invisible and unimportant, you must finish your people comfortably. This means to say no.
By the way, although I think you should take care of the people who interest you? And maintaining relationships in relationships is a way to combine and develop confidence? Pleasant people are not a bat., which can sometimes be seen as a form of control.
If we talk about people, we talk about the family. Sometimes they are so good in their role in the family that they are invisible to them. There are two different approaches to this.
The best thing about teamwork in families is that each member can play a role and make the family work. How to engage in one wheel. Examples are one person who cleanses the other, the other cleans or how to take responsibility.For a great construction of family meetings. Bad in fulfilling a role in a family is that sometimes it can generate the expectation that they always fulfill their role.
In other words, family members put them in a box.
This does not mean loving your family, being a tooth rug and loving your family also means that you do not want to spend all the time to feel invisible or unimportant. He speaks in a loving and honest way of dialogue in a loving and honest wayPromote. Not in a rage joke. If you feel invisible and unimportant to your family members, you can make two options.
Sometimes you can go aside and say you're looking for attention. Always complain.and to be honest when it happens when it comes to the older members of your family.(Tos * your older mother * cough)Your best approach can be to accept this person who is you and then get the role you want to fulfill your family in a way you deserve for your own profits. Not as a way, others to please, but as an acceptance ofwho cannot change to others and please themselves.
On the other hand, it is about approaching the person in the family, who trusts the most: her husband, a sister, a beloved.See.How can you behave like you love as you change perception, how do you see others?
Last but not least, when it comes to feeling invisible to the people with whom they share a home? A family meeting can be well. Maybe it's time to separate tasks.
Five: If you are really honest with yourself, you can find that you will probably feel invisible because you asked your own life.
It seems like your daily life? Do you get up at the last minute possible, have coffee to walk, complain about work, eat a sad table, dinner in one direction, ignore clothes and television while traveling on social networks?Survives and lives with a car driver.
When this sounds familiar, they chose their own lives. They do nothing to deal with the world around them. Or look for a way to give a sense of passion for their own life. Obviously, they feel invisible because they feel invisible without interested.In your own life.
And take a look at your social media habits when you feel invisible and unimportant. It travels through social networks, does you watch others and consume your adventures?Are you consumed with envy when you look at the life others represent on social networks?Do you spend your time to be a passive social networking consumer? It never really contributes to the fact that the conversation can also make you feel invisible and unimportant.
The antidote against your life is a record. If you make the decision to be present in your life.
Move your routine and stop a habit and get up with meditation, prayer or reading of the day. Add ten additional minutes until the day and really use the work.
And stop moving on social networks! Make a contribution.
Six: If your friends are some queens of gossip and drama, you will probably feel invisible and as if it doesn't care about your social circles.
Have you ever met a friend to have coffee and found out that all the conversation revolves around your life? Does your best friend always experience a crisis? Support, the conversation still deals with the challenge of what your life is like?
If you are friends with drama and needy or narcissistic people, you will feel invisible and unimportant. Because all the attention and demand for attention go to you.
And if all your friends talk about other people when they are together, they are unlikely to talk and draw attention to themselves. Those who want to be a discussion problem if not in the room.
Unfortunately, thanks to the queens of drama and gossip in their social circle, there is a way to feel invisible in your social circle to reduce your time with these friends.
Like seven, if you want to stop feeling invisible and unimportant, you must work on your self -confidence.
If this has to do with one, all or some of these reasons, you will feel invisible in your own life, the other factor for the feeling that your self -esteem got a goal. I don't have much confidence in yourself.
So it's importantTo promote your car -confidentiality.This can be built over time. And I discovered that the best way is to act as if I feel safe. Set makeup and accessories, just get up, smile and remember that it is worth, beloved, appreciation and important..
If you have spent years to feel or even try to be a smaller and less remarkable version of yourself, you may have to remember some time.
Like every part of life's life, the way of being visible in your life is an important part of loving yourself. And select a life you love. Even if you want a quiet and simple life, you have always deserved not only forbe visible,But to be the star of your own life.
Do you need a memory that is not invisible?
And what are you important?
Find value in them, because they are caught
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